Each of you would have a definition of how a wedding should be. The jaded, the idealist, the romantic, and even those who wish to have a fairy tale kind of wedding. Wedding planning is certainly going to be what you wish it to be, and more. Then again, remember that this is going to be a hectic and frenzied affair, so make sure you that you have the time and energy to take care of everything, unless you get a wedding planner.
Plan a wedding in such a way that would complement both you and your soon to be spouse’s time. It is important that each of you would remember that this is a happy occasion so try not to forget that there are two of you getting married, so it should not only one who would be making the decisions.
In choosing the wedding reception, will you have a big number of invited guests? Do you want to have an outdoor event? Do you wish to have an event inside a ballroom of a hotel? If you are working on a budget, make sure that your wedding planner would know how much you have allotted certain amounts of money, specifically for what so he would not go beyond the budget, or would know how much he can go. While focusing on all the details before the event, make sure you also check on what the planner would have in mind on the event itself, especially during the reception, so you would not act like dummies acting out, but be on top of the program and what has been planned.